Motives have a lot to do with all that you do in your life. You have to be motivated to do things in your life. Enemies have a motive to harm you in every way possible. Throughout the world people help the homeless and is a good motive because they want to help those in need. She often wonders what motivates people to be heartless, and uncaring to the hurtful things they do to others in the world. People like this are usually only concerned about themselves and not thinking about how the other person is feeling about the situation at hand. Everyone has motives that have some type of impact on their life. What they do to lessen that impact is up to them. If you do not have the desire to make a difference in your life and you do not ask for help from others you have no one to blame but yourself. There are plenty of people who have it worse off that you do and you have to remember that you are not owed anything in this world. You have to work for it if you want it to happen in your life. No one is going to give you anything that you want but yourself.

Types of Motives

There are many different types of motives in this world the motive to murder, rape, steal, drugs, alcohol, embezzling, extortion, and the list could go on and on throughout the world these things are happening and the people doing these things have only one thing on their mind themselves. Sometimes there are problems within the persons brain that causes these types of actions. Most of the time these actions are carried out by games, depression, anxiety, childhood issues, tumors, and many other things. Drugs are the most common form of violence because once you are hooked on the drug you lose control of your thoughts, and actions. Being impaired by these drugs can cause you to do things that you would normally not do if you were not impaired by the drugs. Games that children, teenagers, and adults play for the amusement allow the person to think that it is okay for them to do these types of things because they are stuck in the fantasy world. They play these games for hours, and days on end without stopping. This changes the way that your brain is thinking and reacting to things in the real world because they are in the mindset of the game.


Everyone judges people in this world you are judging them on how they react, how they talk, and many other things because you want to protect yourself and your family from harm. Who knows how people are  going to react in this world you could say something and it makes them go insane. You could do something that they do not like and they could go off the wall. You could deny them a date and they would go on a killing spree. People in this world have too many issues going on in their life and you never know when someone is going to just pop and do something crazy. You have to judge people every day because you want to know in your mind that this person is not going to do harm. This is how people make decisions in their life to keep them safe from harm. You have to listen to your little voices in your mind that tell you this is something that you do not need to do.


Sometimes you think someone is not capable of doing harm but in retrospect they have done harm to someone in their life. There are many different types of harm throughout the world like mental, physical, verbal, bullying, and many other things that you could harm people with in the world or your life. It is crazy but at one point in everyone’s life at least one type of this has done harm to their personality, perspective, and outlook on their life. It is what you do with what has happened to you throughout your life when you finally break free from those harmful aspects. Many people take these things with them throughout their life without thinking about the consequences it will carry later on in their life. You have to make peace with the things that have happened and move on with your life because you are living for yourself or your family.

Tell Yourself

You are great! You can do anything! You will not live in fear! You will not succumb to their level! You will live a happy and fulfilling life! You are a wonderful person! You are your own boss! You do not bow down to anyone! You do not have to put up with anything that you do not want to in your life. You are meant for greater things in your life and you can accomplish anything that you put your mind to. You do not have to put up with someone telling you what to wear, where to go, what to do, and how you live your life. You have to stand up for yourself and what you want out of life.

How Quickly Can Someone Be Dependent on Drugs?


In this world it is so easy to become dependent on drugs with all the problems that people have in the world. It becomes easy for people to depend on the drugs instead of facing the problems head on because it is convenient to buy the drugs instead of working through their problems. Therefore, growing up in this world is hard enough without the pressure of becoming dependent on drugs. Of course, people are certainly curious as to why people become dependent on the drugs that they choose. She believes that when you hang around people that are dependent on drugs you will eventually become just like them. Dependency on drugs usually means that someone is going through a rough time in their life. Therefore, becoming a dependent of drugs usually means that they are trying to escape from the trials and tribulations of life.

She knows that many things that happen in your life can result into the dependency to drugs to relieve the pain, stress, and many other things that they are facing within their life.   She does not understand why they do not seek help instead of resorting to drugs. Throughout the world there are many places that are here to help people get past the trials and tribulations of their life instead of resorting to taking drugs.

When people start depending on drugs to cure the ailments of their life it becomes a habit that is hard to kick because your body is dependent on the drug that they are taking. Without warning it becomes a part of your life. Here you are stuck with a drug addiction that you cannot kick because of anger, pain, suffering, and everything else that is going on in your life.

When you know of someone that is dependent on drugs you see different mood swings, attitude changes, and changes in the things that they do in their life. Sometimes people who are dependent on drugs will do things that they normally would not do because they are coming down off of their high.

Before you know it a day or week has gone by and your friend is looking for a way to get their fix on their choice of drug. They cannot deal with the everyday life because of their dependency on drugs. Many people do not like to be around others that are doing drugs or become dependent on drugs for the fun of it. People that are dependent on drugs do not think about the consequences of their actions until it is too late.

There is help out there if you are willing to make the time to make a change in your life. Having a dependency on drugs is never easy and it takes time to get through the roughest part of cleaning your system of the drugs that you have put into your body. However, you have to keep it in your mind that you are better than the drug. You have to take a stand and make something of yourself instead of relying on the drugs to make your life better.

Sometimes friends, family members, and people that you love dearly need to be put in a place where they are able to detox from the drugs that they are dependent on. In reality, you need to help your family, friends or the people that you love and try to get them the help that they need to not be dependent on the drugs that they are taking.

What is more interesting is the amount of money that it takes to purchase the drugs that they are dependent on. In most scenarios one pill may cost up to $20 dollars or more and if one person is buying five or more a day then that turns out to be quite a bit of money especially if they need more than one pill a day. Your friend or family member needs to know that there is help out there and that you are standing behind them the whole way.

Sometimes they will not listen to reason because they are so dependent on drugs that no matter what you say or do it would not matter much to them. If they are not going to help themselves and admit to having a problem then there is not much that you could accomplish. Most of the time people who are dependent on drugs will blame the people who are trying to help them through their hard time. When in reality, they are the ones who need the love and attention that many people fail to provide to loved ones or friends.