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Changes in Life 

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Fellow reader’s,

This year started out on a emotional roller coaster to say the least. The one thing you hope that never happens does happen. It has turned out to be a long recovery road with all that has happened. 

In January 2017, she lost her mother to cancer.  She has never felt so much pain in her heart as she does right now.  It has taken a toll on her in so many ways she cannot even begin to describe the pain and emotions that is going through her heart and soul. This is by far the hardest thing that she has gone through in her life. It is something that she would ever wish on anyone else. 

As the months go by she thinks about her mother all the time wishing she was here for her to talk to, and tell her about her life. The things that happens in her life she cannot tell her mother because she is gone. She can talk to her in spirit and maybe it would make her feel better. That feeling you have when you do something that you have seen your mother do and it gives you goosebumps because you know that she is watching you from heaven. 

It is the smallest things that you do like one night she was braiding her hair and she was almost done and started crying because it was the same way that her mother braided her hair. It is those moments when you think that all things are hopeless and you cannot move on with your life. However, when you have a family and responsibilities you have to get up and keep moving. Making sure you are taking care of yourself, and your family.  

You know in your life you have to be strong because people rely on you to make the right decisions. You have to make a decision in life when something like this happens on whether or not you are going to let it consume your every morsel of life. If She were to stop everything that she is doing on her life right now she would feel consumed by the emotions that fill her heart full of sadness. 

She has to keep moving, and taking care of the precious things in her life which is her family, her children, and her job these are things that will suffer if she falls into a deep depression of heartache. It is so hard not to fall into something like that because her mother meant the world to her. Her mother was a vibrant, loving, heartwarming, and all around great person who would do anything to help you through anything that you were going through. 

As the months go by it does get a little easier to deal with the fact that she is not here to talk to or call at the moment when you want to talk to her. However, the times that you need someone like your mother for advice on certain situations you find that she is not there for you to call. All her life she has been independent never relying on others for anything. During this difficult time in her life right now she does not know how she will make it through but she does know that she has to take it day by day. 

The holidays are just around the corner and the holidays are something that she lived so much. This is going to be the hardest year for her because she does not know how she is going to handle not being able to spend Christmas with her mother anymore. They say that the first year is the hardest to get through because it is a first for everything. She can understand that because it is hard doing some of things that she does in her life. Because it makes her think of her mother. 

You know people around you try to console you and try to tell you things will get better. However, you have to heal on your time and there is not much people can say that will take the pain away because you have to find peace within yourself.  She had to keep living for her family and make the best of things.  Never forget about her kit her and always remember the good times and the wonderful memories that they made over the years. Those are the moments that will help you through the pain. 

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Little Things

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She started reading a book that a friend let her  borrow “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff” it is a very interesting book to say the least. It is quite amazing how we let the small things in life bring us down from where we are in our life. Everyone is so caught up in worrying about how other’s look at them. We tend to forget about how our actions affect other’s around us. It does not matter what other people think about you because you are the only one that you have to answer to in your life. The things that you do in your life reflect how you will be later on in life.

Life is what you make it and not worrying about the small things in life is something that you have to step back and think about how you would react to those things that bother you so much. You know when you are on a roll with something and someone steps in to help you with what you are doing you have to step back and re-evaluate what you were doing and focus on the steps that you should have taken before they stepped in to help.

The littlest things can trigger something inside and cause you to react in a different way than you should have reacted. Stepping back for just a second can change the way that you look at the situation and change your reaction. When she started writing years ago her children would always interrupt her to ask silly questions about a variety of things and she would react like it was an interruption of her quite time to write. When children are little they do not understand the concepts of quite time or that mommy is trying to work on something.

Finding the center of your aggravation and irritations can help in finding the right place to be so that the little things in life do not bother you as much. Sometimes we do not think about the things that we say or do because when you are just that type of person that is honest about everything that you do in life you tend to say things that you later probably should not have said in the first place. Many people have a hard time hearing the truth about anything that they do in life. Mostly, because they believe that they cannot take criticism from other’s. Many people think that they are helping and do not see the harm in what they are doing. However, by not allowing them to do  these things by themselves makes them think that they can never do it on their own.

Sometimes people do not think about the feelings of other’s and it is hard to think about how other’s are feeling because that is not how the world works. Sometimes people think that other’s do things just to make other’s feel small and not worth anything. Which in turn makes people feel like they are doing well at their job, at home, or anything in between. Sometimes people feel that they cannot do anything right and that they are not worth having around because other’s cannot get past the pet peeves that they have developed over time.

She is very honest with her children and tells them how it is in the real world. People are not going to take their feelings into consideration when you have a job to do. The world is a cruel and unusual place to be because no one cares about the feelings of other’s and they will not take your feelings into consideration. You have to be careful in the things that you say to people because it may come back to bite you later on in your life. You have to be careful in this world because people are so sensitive to anything you say to them. They have no backbone and cannot take criticism of any kind. They do not want to hear the things that they are doing wrong. They just want to hear about the things that they are doing right.

 

Healthy attitude

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You know life can be hard, and throughout the day we can tend to eat whatever we want. Having a positive attitude about everything in your life can be hard. However, when you keep in mind the things that you want to accomplish with your life. There are so many things that I am trying to change about my life and one of them is trying to eat a little healthier. Each morning my daughter makes me a fruit juice and that is what I drink before breakfast, and before lunch if I eat lunch at all. I try to eat a healthy breakfast but sometimes that is hard to do with the current business that I work in.

Throughout the day I try to eat a few snacks so that I am not that hungry during the dinner hour. Watching what you eat is hard to do when your daughter knows how to cook so good. However, it must be done because in recent years I have gotten out of shape, and now am trying to get back to the way it was.

Choosing to have a healthier life is not bad at all as long as you are not trying to shove it down other’s. People are going to eat what they want without regard of the long term effects it will have on their life in the future. It is quite amazing how much people eat, and how much they throw out as well.

You have to be consistent and make a goal to achieve so that you will reach the desired outcome. You are doing this for yourself and no one else. You have to have the will and desire to make changes in your life because no one can help you but yourself.

Personally, I do not want to have to take pills for the rest of my life to keep everything in check. Starting now, watching what I eat, and the amount of exercise that I do are the most important things. Also, having a healthy attitude will help me achieve the desired outcome that I am searching for within my life.

Staying positive about everything in your life can change everything because no one can bring you down. You cannot let people get under your skin because you will be letting them win.

Determination to Succeed

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The determination to succeed in life is something that many people in this world do not have. Most people only want to work what they want, and when they want. They are too busy having a life and not worried about what the future holds down the road. Throughout, the world some people want to succeed in everything that they do. They want to excel in their job, gardening, raising their children, and anything else that they do in life.

Sometimes, the road to success is hard to cope with however, people manage to make it through the hardest parts of their life. This only makes them stronger with every step that they take towards their success in their life. In order, to get where they want to be they have to make sacraficies that many people do not want to make because it will interfere with their plans or their life with their friends.

You have to plan for the future and you cannot do that without determination. You have to want to make something better for yourself, and your family so later on in your life you do not have to worry about anything but enjoying the rest of your life. The best part of your life is making sure that you stay determined to make your life the way that you want without the pressure of anyone else telling you cannot do anything. You will never be anything, and that you will always be a failure.

You cannot listen to these types of things because you will always look at those words that were said to you. When you are always being put down by anyone in your world you will never gain the confidance to make something of yourself. So for you to stay strong you have to keep telling yourself that you can do anything that you put your mind to and not worry about what other people say to you or about you.

When you listen to other people or you listen to the people that are always putting you down you will never achieve anything in your life until you stop the negativity around you and change the outcome that you want for your life. Throughout her life she has always been the time of person to just hang out with family . The few friends that she did have throughout her childhood became distant friends because as they grew older they did not have much in common anymore.

Becoming your own person, and sticking to the things that you want out of your life leaves you with the feeling of accomplishment because you have worked for everything that you want out of your life. No where in this world does it say that you must have friends, you must go out and party with these so-called friends that are nice to your face, and talk about you behind your back. No one needs that in their life. You have responsiblities to take care of your children, and family. Keep your job in check and make sure you are saving for the future.

Determination to make something of yourself and become self-sufficient in this world should be taught to everyone in school. By the time they have graduated they do not know much about the real world, and how cruel people can be within the world. People can be unkind, and treat people badly. They will critize everything that you do, and everything that you say. It does not matter if you are right and they are wrong. Becoming an adult is something that many people dread because you never catch a break from anything in the world.

She is determined to become a success no matter what. She has made it a priority in her life to make the best of what she has and work to wards making it better for everyone that is involved in her life.

Challenging yourself

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Challenging yourself throughout your life is something that will always happen. You have to challenge yourself to be better at everything that you do within your life. You cannot settle for nothing less that the best. People may make fun of you because you like to spend your time challenging yourself to learn more about everything in your life. It may be related to work or something else in your life.

She likes to spend her time reading about multiple things and spending time with her family. Using her mind to  make the best of the things that she has in her life. You can only worry about things that are going on around you instead of worrying about things that you cannot control.

Life is a challenge and you have to be willing to go the extra mile to achieve the things that you want out of that life. If you just sit around playing video games you will never accomplish anything but your high score. Making yourself a list of goals to achieve will help you through the challenges that you will face throughout your life.

Things always have a challenging part to them and sometimes you have to be strategic in how you approach those challenges. For example, a person going to college needs to prioritize what they think is the most important thing like graduating college. Instead of putting those assignments on hold because there is a party going on at another person’s frat house. The reason you went to college in the first place is to get that education to get the job that you have spent so much money on.

Achieving a challenge is the greatest feeling that you can have throughout your life because you are working towards something better. You are striving to make your life better by using your money wisely, saving for the future, and making sure that you can become self-sufficient in the world that we are living in now.

Blogging

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Back in 2011, she started this blog just to write about things that were on her mind, and publish things from college. Since that time her blog has been viewed over 30,000 times and has had the pleasure of meeting some great people that share the same interests as her. She has been absent for some time because of multiple things that has happened in her life to prevent her from keeping up to date with her readers. However, things are looking up and she is getting back on track with some things that she liked to do when she started this blog.

It is quite amazing how far something your write gets around the world. Looking at the multiple countries that have viewed her writing is something that she can never have taken away from her. It is something that she never thought would happen and she did not think that people would read the things that she writes about within the walls of the internet. The feeling that you have when things go your way, and the way that you want them to is something that you can look back on throughout the years.

Blogging has turned out to be a challenge and it is something that she has enjoyed since starting this blog. It is something that soothes her and when she starts writing the words just flow through her mind onto the empty white spaces here. She has always enjoyed writing and hopes to finish her book one day. These things take time to mature throughout the editing, rewriting, and everything else that comes with writing a book. One day she will achieve this and publish for the world to see.

Inspiration from the heart for everyone to read. Hopefully, she is helping others with some of the same types of frustration, and insecurity that she has with her writing. All she wants to do is voice her thoughts about things throughout her life that maybe one day will help other in achieving the goals that they set out for themselves. Life is what you make it and you can spend your time sitting around doing nothing or you can make the most of what your life has to offer. Writing, blogging, and voicing your opinions about things may help other people in the world.

Achievment’s

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As this year proceeds she is  reminded of the achievements that she has made throughout this year have made her realize that things happen for a reason. She may not understand at the moment why things are not going my way. However, you have to take things in with a grain of salt. Sometimes we always do not understand why things happen and we think that the world is coming down all at once. Sometimes it does come down all at once and there is nothing that you can do but work through the ups and downs of your life.

Eventually, things come together when they should and then there is nothing left but for you to live your life the way that you want. Sometimes, we reflect on the things that we have been through that have brought us to this point in our life. These things that happen make you realize that life is worth the wait. Even though things may look dull from time to time you have to work through the hardest parts of your life to make it to where you want to be.

That means that you have to work twice as hard to get the things that you want out of your life. Even if that means that you do not get to see your family quite as much as you would like. In the end everything that you do in your life you can always count on it being worth the wait. You are an influence to your children and to the people that you are around when you show them that you are willing to go the extra mile to get the things that you want out of life.

You cannot take things for granted, and you have to appreciate the things that you have in order to make it in the world. If you do not appreciate the things that you have and are not grateful for the things that you work so hard for then you will never have anything in your life that is worth anything. She has worked hard for everything that she has in her life and she has accomplished so much throughout her life in the past ten years.

Some of the accomplishments in her life is that she graduated college with a B average in all her degree’s. She has finally got the job that she went to college for and put her skills to the test. Throughout, the process there are pitfalls, and obstacles that she will face throughout the process. However, in the end it is all worth the time and effort that she is putting in to the job at hand. She has homeschooled her children for the last five years, and one of the children will be graduating next year.

Life sends so many things your way and you have to work through them in order to get the desired result. You cannot listen to other people or let them bring you down because you are working towards the things that you want out of your life. When you are happy with the things that are going on in your life then all you need to worry about is the things that will make you happy and successful in the world. Instead of being a follower  be the leader and show people that you have what it takes to achieve everything that you want out of life.

People seem to think  that you need friends to survive in the world. Well she is one of the exceptions because she does not need friends to make her world go round. She has her family and that is all that she needs to make her world go round and round. With three teenager’s in the house there is no  room for anything else but family. She does not need to go out and party with friends just so they can stab her in the back and make fun of her. She does not need to go spend time at other people’s house or have parties of her own.

Just when you think that things cannot get any better something always happens to make that change your mind. Living for the moment is not something that you do when you have plans for the future. Making sure that you can survive anything that comes your way is the most important thing. Being self-sufficient is something that everyone should work on throughout their life because it may come in handy one day.

April Challenge accepted

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I love these types of challenges and looking forward to the upcoming month of April. These are things that keep you motivated to write and keep your reader’s interested in the things that you write about and keep them coming back for more. Cannot wait until the event starts. Better get started now so they can self publish while I am working.

Welcome back to the world of writing!

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Hello Readers,

I have been quite busy lately with many things going on in my life. Now, I am back to the writing and hopefully will be able to keep some articles coming throughout the year. This past year was filled with many different obstacles that have turned out to be a big part of my life. Running a business is something that I have always dreamed about and learning the right way to do things along with the wrong way to do things is something that is very demanding. Since we are open 24 hours a day you are always on call for anything that may go wrong with your business.

I believe that things have gotten stable at this point since it has been a year since the promotion to management. It is great and I really enjoy the work that I do for the company that I work for throughout this career. Along with loosing the laptop due to complications with the system or battery writing articles to publish on the cell phone is sometimes not feasible.

Now, I am sitting here writing this blog post to apologize to all my reader’s for not posting something sooner. I just realized it has been 10 months since I have written anything of substantial interest for the reader’s. Hopefully, now I can keep posting something around the hectic schedule that I have because it is something that I have loved doing. Writing is an art and some people just know how to write till their hearts content.

That is what happens when you sit down at the computer and just let your thoughts come out onto the page in front of you. Well anyway, here is to the upcoming year with plenty of writing articles for this blog that I started a few years ago.

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Giving Thanks this year

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This time of year everyone gives thanks for the things that they have.  This year she would like to  give thanks for the family that she has , the job that she has , and the wonderful things that have happened in the last year.  It has turned out to be one of the most wonderful years they have had in a while.  This is a time for reflection on what you have to be thankful for and spend time with the ones you love. 

This past year she has had the opportunity to work with people who have made a difference in her life. She has spent time with her family,  and her career is going in the direction that she wants it to go. She is grateful to have this opportunity to further her career and show the world that she can do anything she puts her mind into getting it done. 

Without goals you cannot accomplish anything, and if they are not written down you will not fulfill your goals. If you want to make it in this world you have to be willing to make sacrifices for what you want out of life.  Being thankful for what  you have instead of complaining about the things that you do not have is not going to get you anywhere.